In my early twenties, I fell in love with The Wire, a gritty crime drama that I still consider to be my all-time favorite TV show. One can interpret The Wire as an attempt to capture a particular place and time––in this case, Baltimore in the 2000s. The show has a sprawling cast, but a […]
Summary: Sherry Turkle’s Artificial Intimacy is an examination of how relationships between humans and artificial intelligence systems are reshaping our social world. Turkle doesn’t argue that people should abstain from AI use altogether, but she takes a strong position against human-AI relationships, which she characterizes as the point at which we “take a thing as […]
Disclosure: I received a free copy of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review. Jonathan Tepper’s Shooting Up is a memoir of Tepper’s boyhood, adolescence, and early adulthood. Tepper’s parents were American missionaries who traveled to Spain in the 1980s and founded a small drug rehabilitation community that eventually expanded and […]
Summary: Spencer Greenberg and Jeremy Stevenson’s The 12 Levers is the end product of an extensive research project aimed at identifying the best psychological tools for improving human life. The book distills a massive amount of information from self-help and psychotherapy into “12 Levers” that we can pull to cope, heal, learn, grow, and reduce […]
Summary: Natalie Y. Gutiérrez’s The Pain We Carry is a guide for people of color who are struggling with complex posttraumatic stress disorder. Gutiérrez organizes the book around a “Cultural Empowerment Approach” and names four cultural legacy burdens: racism, patriarchy, materialism, and individualism. She also outlines four “empowerment steps” that readers can take to address […]
Note: This post is a departure from my usual book review format. It was written when I first read No Bad Parts back in 2024, but I am only just now getting around to publishing it. I hope you enjoy! Cast of Characters: Manager (MN): an intellectual, age 36 Firefighter (FF): a skeptic, age 36 […]
My wife is a librarian, so one of her great joys is finding new books to recommend to people. And she’s damned good at it. She reads widely and has developed a canny ability to internalize someone’s preferences and point them in the direction of something new that they will most likely enjoy. Usually her […]
Table of Contents Three Roads to the Same Door Compulsion or Connection? Where We Are Defining Artificial Intimacy and Attachment Hacking The “Partner” Who Never Takes a Day Off The Differential Question Attachment Paralysis and Relational Atrophy More For Clinicians The Strongest Case Against Takeaways/TL;DR References Three Roads to the Same Door Over the last […]
Adrian Tchaikovsky’s Children of Strife is the fourth novel in his Children of Time series. Whenever a series reaches the very upper stratum of my science fiction pantheon, it can be a little scary to learn that a new installment has been published. It’s definitely exciting, but I also fear it might be disappointing. Will […]
Summary: Scott Galloway’s Notes on Being a Man is a memoir that explores the intersection between Galloway’s personal story and America’s current masculinity crisis. Galloway offers lessons from his life and career to provide young men with a set of values and practices that can help them mature and thrive. The book centers on what […]